other day I read in "Psychology Today" an interesting Article on the way to a good decision. And the woman can now but maybe you even really use from time to time. Here's the short version:
Who wants to learn the decision should have no fear of loss.
We fear the "cost" and are not focusing on what we win, but on what we have to lose or abandon. And because we want to decide not us against something and it permanently close a door, we try to keep as many options open and contact us so that under pressure because we have many unsatisfactory things further than "open door" to carry around with us.
Who wants to make a good decision should think of the future.
already "paid" (whether money or something else) is always gone and should therefore be no rash on a recent decision, the future. (Note the blogger: lights me absolutely, I'm already so)
Appropriately, the 10-10-10 method: One point is very specific, the consequences of a decision taken now in 10 minutes - in 10 months and has 10 years of age. And only when the 10-year balance is still positive, the decision is good.
Who should be making a decision to practice in the "reflection without attention."
is, the more complex a decision, the more important is the intuition It's great the "emotional experience memory" is an opportunity and a very complex decision usually can not always meet on the basis of facts, because you can not keep track of the long term.
Who wants to make a decision, should not strive for the "right" decision.
Fortunately, the people who have found something that "good enough" for them and not the ones who are always wondering if there is something better / proper. (Note the blogger: Where the human race would certainly be worse off than it is now when all the great inventors, doctors, etc. that would have seen such)
risk minimization: Imagine the question: what if my decision would turn out to be wrong in the future and then we hear again mercilessly own gut feeling. acted because supposedly, most people are more likely to reconcile with a wrong decision, after which they were 100%, with the feeling against his own intuition.
Who wants to make a decision should have waited.
Between Yes and No, we give the decision time to mature and can in this "silence" approach their own volition. (Note the blogger: If I silence between yes and no standing is because a lot, but no silence)
Consequently, I am going to continue not to the Dance Center (see the point "already paid") because I do not feel like it and the coal is already gone anyway. And I just totally Does not matter whether this decision in the 10-year record book really suggests to shit because then I lazy, fat and Brasig front of the box lie all the time and think "I would not have made sport" .
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